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Master seeks first slave

I am a Young Professional seeking a D/s relationship.

After a long consideration and soul-searching, I discovered I want to be a sexual Dominant. I enjoy growing people and making the world a better place.

It is really fun to take trips and seeing the world. I often visit new places and experience new things. I would like to share this with a sub.

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My Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?In the wild. Going for a camping trip and having sex under the stars.
In the town. Seeking a space that is super busy, and getting busy while the world passes


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageSouth African
Height5' 10" (178 cm)
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBlack
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Best featureCalves
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
My attractiveness:Average


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleDev-Ops Engineer

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Thoughtfullness
My perfect matchA lady. She would enjoy a life shared. Be in need of guidance. Someone who I can mentor and mold to be a successful woman, yet willing to submit to my guidance.

Ideally enjoy bondage, sexual submission, being a 24/7 collared slave. I would take her through the ranks and make a lifetime commitment to her as she becomes the perfect slave.
Our first dateCoffee, a clear breakdown of what we want, need and actionable steps. A fail-fast kind of mindset so we don't waste time, or set expectations that we can't keep

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isMaster
I am seekingA lifetime relationship (LTR)
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Candle wax, Chastity devices, Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Cross dressing, Cupping, Depilation / shaving, Electro torture, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Food play, Hot wax, Kidnapping, Mummification, Needle play, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Suspension, Tickling games, Voyeurism, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner


FetishesCrossdressing, High Heels, Lace / Lingerie, Lactation, Medical / Enema, Panty, Shoes / Boots, Voyeurism, Other

Sexual Activities

Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Strip clubs, Dungeon clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Sex toys:All of the above and more!
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Non-Consensual Permanents Modification
Public Humiliation

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyLifestyle D/s relationship.

I want to wake up with my slave. Ensure we are on time and enforce discipline if not. From there I would go through the morning fitness routine, depending on the schedule, cycling, surfing, jogging or yoga.

After we both completed it, and my slave completed it I would reward her. Ideally this would be in the form of a kiss or other sensual encounter. Knowing that we should keep fit and to routine in order to maintain health and wellness.

A meditation session and journal entry time will follow. Afterwards a breakfast will be prepared and we will set out to a new scene. I will pick her clothes for this session. Today is a white day. It seems that a white panty, micro skirt, blouse will be in order for the scene.

Today it is about control of your body. I will test your limits slave. We will start with a enema. 100ml. You will be expected to hold it for an hour. We will be going shopping quickly for a treat. If you mess, there is trouble, if not, chocolate. So we go out. 45 minutes in, no mess, no fuss. We go to the mall's baby change room. I put her on the table, inspecting every piece of white clothing. It is pristine. Good slave. Now since we have 15 minutes left of the 1 hour we will increase the challenge. It is time to orgasm. I remove a towel from the bag and open my tickling tools. It is time for controlling your skin sensation. I instruct her to go into the x position exposing her tickling places. Slowly with about 10 minutes remaining I start the tickling.

Rules are set, laughing is out, making a noise is out, making a mess is out. After 8 minutes of keeping it up, with 2 minutes remaining, I tell her well done. There is 2 minutes left. Strip, empty your douche into this bottle, put it into the bag. You have 5 minutes, I will meet you outside.

With a remote camera I ensure that she waits the full time before cleaning out and meeting me. Given that she follows orders perfectly we will be going to the car. Driving home it is time to start getting aroused. So we first stop in a remote parking lot. Remove your blouse and bra. Good. Get those nipple perky. I want you to be able to control your arousal. Good. Now relax and get them soft. Perky. Soft. Perky. Good. Lets go. No bra, blouse only back on. Lets go home.

After unpacking from the car, I expect you to be in the clothed inspection position. This will be standing hands on your head, feet 55 cm apart in the middle of the living area. A quick inspection will follow ensuring she is clean and white, in control of her actions as per this morning briefing. She passes. Good.

I rip open her blouse, expecting no hesitation or reflex from her side, she is supposed to trust me. Tear of the rest of her clothes. We have standards in the house. Cunt hair should be trimmed to a landing strip, no longer that 2 cm. She passes. Arses shall be clean and not stink. She passes.

It is time to please me I announce. A massage shall be in order. I go sit in my masters chair expecting her to comply as I taught her. Perfect execution. No time wasted, pleasurable, intense.

It is time for her reward due to her control over her body. To the bed. Today we will make you cum I pronounced. Please go to the exposed position. She knows this is lying on her back, hands holding her feet, with her pussy exposed.

Today is a thankful session. I expect you to thank me for everything I do. From touching you, massaging you, anything inserted into you. Everything deserve thanks.

Good, lets tie her feet and hands out of the way. Tying them to the restraints in a cross way.

Slowly I light a soft-wax massage candle. The smell of it fills the room. It is time. I start gently massaging the clit, getting thanks. Dropping some wax/oil to ensure there is enough wetness for the big action. She remembers the rules. Before orgasm we ask permission, If permission is not granted we will not orgasm.

The cunt is getting wet. I insert a finger expecting to be thanked. She remembers. Starting the stimulation of in and out, slowly. I stop. It is time for me to go. I abandon her for 5 minutes, expecting to return to a well trusting slave.

Success, she did not panic. We shall continue. Taking a electrostim probe, attaching one end to the labia and the other end to the small toe. One small shock, a thank you. Moving it electrode, after cleaning it, to the other labia lib. A light pulsation occurs and she thank me for it.

Enough of that. Remember our lesson in the car. It is about control. Now I want you to orgasm, you have permission. I rip out my dick and penetrate her cunt. Thrusting her into oblivion. I expect you to orgasm now. And a sigh of relieve with a burst of pleasure on her face. Knowing it was a good day.

I am not done with you. I untie her telling her to stand in the inspection position. I attach a nipple pussy chain. It is time to clean this mess,, all of it. You have 15 minutes I will be in the living area waiting for you to present yourself. She knows this is bowed down with a collar and lease. The time passes and she is present herself on time.

The bedroom is clean, the equipment in the required slots. The ripped clothes in the ripped clothes bin. Just one problem, she left a button in the middle of the bed. I now know she is testing my Dominance. I won't let it slide. I tell her it is unacceptable and she needs to write a 1000 word essay, present it to me at 16H34 and it should be in hand writing. You are now banned from anywhere except the writing room until presentation time.

I continue with my project until the time arrives for her presentation. She presents the essay. 1001 words describing her action, motivation and expected recourse of her action. She knows the rules. A minor inflection, a minor punishment. I can see she wants a spanking, but spanking her would be the wrong thing to do. I am in control and I don't think spanking is the right thing to do. So therefor we will be administering a different punishment.

You will be hosting a one-slave play. I know she doesn't like it, but I have the play and that is what punishment is for. You also broke the word limit and therefor your punishment is writing the play over before performing it. I will see you in the morning. She knows she messed up. When the lights out time comes I find her asleep in the required dresscode.

Morning breaks and we follow the routine, on time as expected. Present your punishment I instruct. She present her copy of the play, copied by hand. No mistakes.

Do the play. She performs as expected. Now sit down. You have permission to speak freely. Why did you disobey my command?

She explains that she just wanted a spanking and I didn't give her one in the last week. I ask her why she doesn't feel free to communicate this as needed. After a long and open talk we improved our D/s relationship.

Of course, the next session might include a spanking, or not. That will only be decided based on my will. The will she agreed to follow
Fantasy locationAirplane, Train, Moving car, At a park, Dark alley, Bleachers of a stadium, Kitchen, Elevator, Hotel/motel, Swimming pool, Hot tub, Movie theatre, Parents house, Dressing room, On the beach, My office, In a church, Library, In a taxi cab, Public bathroom, Restaurant

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Master-Mistress / Slave Spanking
Role:I'm open to experimenting
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position, Other
Implement:Riding Crop, Gloves, Belt, Other
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence
Pain level:Stinging